Asking myself this question a lot lately!!
How can you be single if you are living and sleeping with someone?
I noticed that a lot of men are listed as single yet they are living and sleeping with someone so tell me fellas are your women single too or is it just you?
I have never been much for playing stupid childish games in my life simply because I am old enough to know what and who I want!
I am not looking to change the way you are in any way if this is working for you by all means go for it. Just do not expect the same loyalty and devotion of a committed relationship if you yourself are not committed!
As far as I know a relationship requires much more then just showing up.. If you are not in it for the gold why are you in it at all?
I think it is time to step back and ask yourself these questions..
Why am I here?
Do I really want to be here?
How would I feel if she was gone?
Am I doing all I can to make it work?
Is she worth my time and energy or am I here just because I can be?
Have I made my feelings to her clear enough or is she still sitting in the dark?
You see guys if you are not real careful about how you do it the one whom you love may not really know it..
When a woman is left unattended and confused she tends to go to the one who knows just what to do..
There are a few who hang on till the very end but if the man she is with just doesn't change she is bound to end up with one who can..
If you truly love her and want her to stay then I think Today is the Day you should make a change!
How can you be single if you are living and sleeping with someone?
I noticed that a lot of men are listed as single yet they are living and sleeping with someone so tell me fellas are your women single too or is it just you?
I have never been much for playing stupid childish games in my life simply because I am old enough to know what and who I want!
I am not looking to change the way you are in any way if this is working for you by all means go for it. Just do not expect the same loyalty and devotion of a committed relationship if you yourself are not committed!
As far as I know a relationship requires much more then just showing up.. If you are not in it for the gold why are you in it at all?
I think it is time to step back and ask yourself these questions..
Why am I here?
Do I really want to be here?
How would I feel if she was gone?
Am I doing all I can to make it work?
Is she worth my time and energy or am I here just because I can be?
Have I made my feelings to her clear enough or is she still sitting in the dark?
You see guys if you are not real careful about how you do it the one whom you love may not really know it..
When a woman is left unattended and confused she tends to go to the one who knows just what to do..
There are a few who hang on till the very end but if the man she is with just doesn't change she is bound to end up with one who can..
If you truly love her and want her to stay then I think Today is the Day you should make a change!
I think these guys that are sleeping with someone and "single" are doing the friends with benefits thing. Basically, I know you enough to be your friend, but hey - let's do the wild thing. And yes, it seems as if many women are OK with this too. This maybe what they are thinking. Whether right or wrong - it seems to be more common these days.
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